We’re continuing our series on the creeping prosperity gospel. This week, we’re exploring “what God Promises,” and today, Scott Bennett has graciously agreed to share. I read these words last night after spending time with John Ray’s post. Both lost daughters. Both hand their hopes on the promises of Christ. I cannot tell you how privileged I feel that these two gents penned pieces for this series. Please consider Scott’s words and join us in the comments as we work this out.
February 29, 2000. She lay lifeless except for her chest, which rose and fell exactly 30 times a minute in a disturbing, jerky rhythm. The wheeled machine next to her NASA-like bassinet blew and drew breaths for her.
Instead of a mobile above her head, a heat lamp beamed blinding rays of light down to chase the jaundice from her mottled, yellow skin.
Instead of soft music, a shrill staccato of beeps chirped sour chords when her temperature spiked, or oxygen dropped.
Instead of a binky, a ribbed blue tube the diameter of my forefinger disappeared between her dry lips, delivering life to her lungs in measured puffs.
Instead of a delicate navel cord, a cluster of 15 wires and tubes breached her blood-encrusted belly button, feeding life-sustaining fluids into it.
Instead of holding her in our arms, we could only watch her from a distance, wondering if she’d see another day.
She was 3 days old. Her heart had stopped in the night, while we slept. Had she not been at the hospital when it happened, we would have been making funeral arrangements that day. Were first-time parents—Christian parents—living a nightmare, with bloodshot eyes and jean pockets full of wet, wadded-up tissues.
Standing at the bedside of a very sick newborn—or watching any tragedy unfold, for that matter—will upend long-held categories. It will deeply disturb a faith that has in any way been connected to earthly ease, or triumphal chest-beating when things get hard. Mine had been, in some measure. I could practically sing the stanza in my sleep:
Standing on the promises that cannot fail!
When the howling storms of doubt and fear assail!
By the living Word of God I shall prevail!
Standing on the promises of God!
I still believed it to be true. But the spiritual wind had been knocked out of me. In those moments, standing on anything seemed far too ambitious. I was dangling precariously over a cliff. I needed promises, but I wasn’t going to be able to stand on anything. My lifeline would need to be more like a harness to hang from than a rock to stand on.
So I started writing them down, like laying out strands of string. And I rehearsed them back to God, over and over.
You love me. And all things will work together for good for me, because I love you. In Your presence is fullness of joy. You will never leave me or forsake me. The sufferings of this life aren’t worthy to be compared to the glory to come. As the God of all comfort, You give me enough comfort to comfort others down the road. If I make my requests known to You, Your unfathomable peace will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. This trial is giving me the patience and endurance to persevere to the end. As a Christian, I will suffer with You in order that I may be glorified with You. You understand my sorrows because You were the Man of Sorrows, and were acquainted with grief. With joy set before You, You endured the cross. You went before me, and will see me through all the way home, no matter what.
I braided these and countless other cords together. I cinched them around myself and lay still, hanging from a cliff face overlooking the valley of the shadow of death.
Thank God, they held. And they healed. Each one became a source of steady strength that nothing else around me could provide. And yes, I’m going to say it: I found enjoyment in them during some of those darkest days.
Even when she died, 8 years later.
I still wear those ropes.
This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life. Psalm 119:50